In a world where every symptom is expected to have a clear-cut cause, those of us living with nervous system dysfunction—whether it’s ME/CFS, fibromyalgia, FND, or other similar conditions—often find ourselves in an awkward place. We feel physical symptoms like pain, fatigue, and internal tremors that profoundly impact our lives, but routine tests often come back normal, leaving us with few answers. The world might say, “It’s all in your head.” But recent research and case studies reveal that this statement doesn’t mean what people think. Instead, the mind and body are deeply interconnected, each capable of affecting the other in ways that can’t always be seen or measured.
One fascinating look at this idea comes from Suzanne O'Sullivan’s book The Sleeping Beauties. She takes us on a journey into the complex world where mind, body, and environment intertwine, highlighting real stories of people whose symptoms defy straightforward explanations. These stories are deeply insightful for those of us navigating chronic nervous system issues, showing how our experiences may be rooted in similar mind-body connections.
The Sleeping Beauties: When Illness Tells a Story
In The Sleeping Beauties, O'Sullivan explores the story of refugee children in Sweden who experienced a mysterious “sleep” called resignation syndrome. These children, after facing traumatic experiences, would slip into unresponsive states that sometimes lasted for years. O'Sullivan suggests this was the body’s way of protecting itself—a shutdown in response to overwhelming stress.
This resonates with those of us dealing with nervous system dysfunction. When our systems face intense stress, trauma, or prolonged illness, they can overreact by heightening our sensitivity to pain, amplifying fatigue, or causing internal tremors. This isn’t “all in our heads”; rather, it’s our bodies signalling a need for relief, much like the children’s response to their circumstances. Our bodies communicate, often through symptoms that tell a story of stress, environment, and the need for safety.
A Mind and Body Out of Balance: The Role of Stressors
O'Sullivan’s work shines a light on a key concept: illness often involves not just the physical but also the psychological and social. Her insights align with the growing understanding that nervous system dysfunction isn’t isolated from our mental and social environments. When our surroundings are filled with stress, trauma, or uncertainty, our nervous systems can shift into a state of “high alert,” affecting everything from our energy levels to digestion and sleep.
Just as the children in The Sleeping Beauties experienced shutdown when their lives were overwhelmed with fear, we may feel waves of debilitating symptoms when our own systems reach a breaking point. What if our bodies are simply responding the only way they know how? Healing, then, requires more than just physical care; we need environments that foster recovery, reduce stress, and allow our nervous systems to settle.
Reframing “Psychosomatic”: Real, Not Imagined
For many, the term “psychosomatic” sounds like a dismissal. But O'Sullivan’s book challenges this view, showing that the psychological aspects of illness don’t mean symptoms are imagined. The mind’s role in illness is deeply powerful, and symptoms can be very real and even severe, no matter their source. Embracing this mind-body connection shouldn’t make us feel lesser; instead, it can empower us to explore new paths to healing that honour the full picture of what we’re experiencing.
Our illnesses are complex, not fabricated. By understanding the interplay between mind and body, we open doors to holistic methods of healing that respect the validity of our symptoms. Nervous system dysfunction isn’t a “weakness” or “fault”—it’s the body’s response to cumulative stress and trauma. Reframing our view allows us to focus on healing as a whole process, involving physical, mental, and emotional aspects.
Illness as a Reflection of Social and Cultural Pressures
One of the most compelling aspects of The Sleeping Beauties is how illness can sometimes reflect the pressures of our environment. In Sweden, O'Sullivan found that resignation syndrome in refugee children seemed to occur in response to a specific cultural and social situation—a place where these children felt trapped and helpless. Illness, in these cases, echoed not just their internal struggles but also the world around them.
For many with nervous system dysfunction, the social context we live in can add another layer to our challenges. Environments that misunderstand or disregard conditions like ME/CFS, fibromyalgia, or FND can deepen our symptoms and isolation. When we’re pressured to “justify” or “prove” our symptoms, it can heighten stress, causing our nervous systems to react even more strongly. Real healing often requires not just symptom management, but a supportive environment that respects our experience and gives us the freedom to heal.
Bridging Mind and Body in Recovery
The Sleeping Beauties reminds us that just because symptoms don’t show up on a test doesn’t make them any less real. For those of us with nervous system dysfunction, recovery may mean learning to recognize and respond to both mind and body cues. Methods like mindfulness, brain retraining, and pacing can help calm our systems and allow healing to begin. We can even make small changes to our environment to create spaces that feel safe, comfortable, and supportive.
Compassion is another key ingredient. Nervous system dysfunction isn’t a sign of failure; it’s our body’s way of responding to prolonged stress. By seeing our symptoms as signals rather than setbacks, we can take a holistic view of healing that includes every part of our experience—our thoughts, emotions, surroundings, and physical well-being.
Conclusion: A New Perspective on Nervous System Dysfunction
The Sleeping Beauties invites us to consider that “invisible” illnesses are no less deserving of understanding and compassion. Nervous system dysfunction, with its often hidden but life-altering symptoms, deserves a nuanced approach that respects both mind and body.
While our symptoms may not be visible on a scan, their impact on our lives is undeniably real. By honouring this profound mind-body relationship, we open the door to a more complete healing process—one that sees us as whole and recognises that true recovery involves the entire self.
References
O'Sullivan, S. (2021). The Sleeping Beauties: And Other Stories of Mystery Illness. London: Picador.
In The Sleeping Beauties, Suzanne O'Sullivan examines various cases where social, psychological, and physical factors interact to create complex, sometimes unexplained illnesses. Her work is foundational for understanding the profound influence that psychological and environmental stressors can have on physical health.
Van Oudenhove, L., & Cuypers, S. E. (2010). “The relevance of the biopsychosocial model in understanding the relation between gut and brain in functional GI disorders.” Gastroenterology, 138(5), 1655-1656.
This article discusses the biopsychosocial model of illness, particularly as it relates to functional disorders like those affecting the nervous system and the gut-brain axis. It underscores the importance of considering psychological and environmental factors alongside physical symptoms.
Henningsen, P., Zipfel, S., & Herzog, W. (2007). “Management of functional somatic syndromes.” The Lancet, 369(9565), 946-955.
This review of functional somatic syndromes highlights how psychological and environmental stressors can manifest as physical symptoms, providing a broader understanding of conditions that often elude traditional diagnostic methods.
Fischer-Waldschmidt, G., Gaudlitz, K., Lang, U. E., & Janke, C. (2016). “Psychosomatic aspects in functional neurological disorders.” European Archives of Psychiatry and Clinical Neuroscience, 266(5), 451-459.
This article explores the psychosomatic aspects of functional neurological disorders (FND), illustrating the connection between psychological stressors and physical symptoms and supporting O'Sullivan’s approach in The Sleeping Beauties.
Rubin, D. C., Berntsen, D., & Bohni, M. K. (2008). “A memory-based model of posttraumatic stress disorder: Evaluating basic assumptions underlying the PTSD diagnosis.” Psychological Review, 115(4), 985-1011.
This model links the stress response with physical manifestations in the body, supporting the notion that unresolved psychological stress can lead to persistent nervous system dysregulation, similar to the phenomena explored in O'Sullivan’s book.
McEwen, B. S., & Stellar, E. (1993). “Stress and the individual: Mechanisms leading to disease.” Archives of Internal Medicine, 153(18), 2093-2101.
McEwen’s work on stress and its physiological effects explains how prolonged stress impacts the nervous system, potentially leading to conditions like FND, fibromyalgia, and other psychosomatic syndromes.
Borsook, D., Edwards, R., Elman, I., Becerra, L., & Levine, J. (2013). “Pain and analgesia: the value of salience circuits.” Progress in Neurobiology, 104, 93-105.
This research discusses how the brain processes pain and stress, emphasizing the influence of salience circuits in the nervous system. It aligns with O’Sullivan’s insights by supporting the mind-body connection in conditions that manifest with both physical and psychological symptoms.
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